What are you waiting for? Until & unless you make up your mind, no amount of support, help, resources will seem enough for your growth. You may have immense potential, you may be intelligent, you may know many things, but only if you make up your mind to use these, only when you make up your mind to create something out of these; you will see the beauty of your creation.Only then life will be worthwhile.
You may face obstacles, life may at times knock you down, times may be challenging; you will be a victim if you don't make up your mind to create & look past these. If you have a tendency of being in the victim mindset, then do ask yourself what is it that you are getting by being in that state. Is this satisfying your ego(small mind), your craving for attention & sympathy; covering up & not acknowledging your limiting habits such as procrastination, fear of failure, inaction etc?
Sometimes asking blunt questions to oneself really helps. Many a times we go through inner turmoil, inner conflicts because of which we are unable to decide & take any action. We need three things to achieve any goal:
1. A powerful motivating goal itself
2. The path, the support that will take us to the goal
3. The desire to move on that path
Lack of anyone of the above will not let you achieve that goal. The third one is very crucial. It is that making up your mind bit, the inner conflict. If you don't have a propelling need to achieve that goal, if you see that you will loose out more by achieving that goal, even if you consciously want it, your subconscious mind will refrain you from attaining that. Thus giving rise to the inner conflict.
I spoke to someone few months back and got to know that the situation that the person was in, was not serving at all. All the blind spots could be seen, all the areas of improvement were visible. The person realized that too. But, due to the inability to make up the mind, the person is juggling still. The person is in the same challenging situation, complaining & cribbing. Every day I see the victim born with new ways of justifying the current situation. There is support, there is help only if the person chooses to accept it. This is a very common state that many of us go through including me. All I say is make up your mind before it is too late.
Life & Organizational Development Coach